Episode #159: My Clients Never Call Me Back

Today in business, reaching anyone by telephone is nothing less than a miracle. Japan is particularly good at making sure you can never catch clients. The lowest ranked staff on the totem pole are designated as the “first impression” bearers for the company. They are invariably doing a pretty poor job of it because they are not properly trained. They think their job is to be brisk, business like and protect their colleagues and bosses from everyone who calls in, especially salespeople.

Japan’s risk aversion ensures that you have no idea who you are talking to when they answer the call. This is because they are careful not to divulge their name. They ensure there won’t be any repercussions from the call, should it ever become a problem. They are not thinking “great, you called, we are so happy that you want to do business with us”. No, they are guarded, suspicious, fearful of people they don’t know and so their tone is negative, protective and doubtful of the caller’s intentions. Did I mention they were the designated company’s first impression’s holders? Call into your own shop and I bet you will find the same. It might be time to rethink what first impressions you want to portray to the wider world.

Usually, when the person you wish to reach is not there, they rarely volunteer a return call option. They just say, “they are not at their desk”, expecting you will desist and duly disappear. I have found that if you remain on the line but silent, they quickly get confused. In their bafflement, they may inadvertently blurt out “can I take a message?”. Great, you can leave a message now and get the person you seek to call you back. However, later you begin to wonder if that message ever got delivered, because there is never a call back.

We all live in the Age of Distraction and there are so many things competing for the mind space of our clients. Technology is supposed to be helping us by giving us instant connectivity 24 hours a day, but all it has done is make sure we fill up the entire day with “stuff”. Meeting frequency has become crazier and busy people can spend their entire day gracefully wafting from one meeting to another.

You see these digital nomads, with their one fifth open oyster shell laptops, breezily migrating from one room to another. When they do get back to their desk, the in-basket in their email has become overloaded and they have to spend hours sorting through it. Perhaps there is a piece of notepaper, that looks like litter, lost somewhere on their desk. It has your name and phone number on it, left there by the person who took your call.

This is all very disheartening, frustrating and annoying. However, never take the lack of a call back personally. Do not try to psychoanalyse the lack of response from the person you are trying to contact. You do not know why they are not returning your call, but you need to keep calling to find out why they won’t call back. When you call them again and get their voice mail service, always leave a message. If you get Mr. or Ms. Lowest On The Totem Pole answering the call again, leave another message to call you back. You should keep trying to find out why they are not returning your call by sending emails, snail mail, and dropping by, that is, if you can access their building without a prearranged entry pass.

If you do finally get hold of them, be professional, don’t complain about the fact they were so hard to contact or that they don’t respond to any of your calls. Rise above the personal insult you may be feeling. Yes, you are fiercely frustrated by their lack of common courtesy, but this call back courtesy is no longer common. We have to realise we are in a different age. One of my friends who runs a big foreign multinational operation here tells me that his younger Japanese staff absolutely avoid the phone at all cost. They simply don’t want to answer it. This is the new age we live in. Remember, you are the salesperson and it is your job to make contact with clients. It is not their job to do anything helpful or useful.

Now what if the client complains about the fact that you keep calling them and leaving messages? You should just ignore it completely. Remember, this is part of your job, not theirs. They may be feeling guilty that they never got back to you and want to switch the blame to you. Don’t get emotional, defensive or aggressive. Apologise in a light hearted manner like this, “You know…you are probably right, I have been calling a lot lately haven’t I”. Then immediately explain that, “The reason I have been calling is because what we have is so good, I consider it my duty as a sales professional, to at least make sure you are aware of it. Whether you do something about it or not, is entirely your business decision and responsibility on behalf of your company. My role in business is to help you as much as possible to expand your business, if it makes sense”.

Go on to explain that you are here to help them do just that. And you would be letting them down if you didn’t introduce the opportunity for their consideration. Also gently mention that you are absolutely certain that they encourage their own sales force to be equally motivated to help their own buyers.

They will know that their own sales force could do a much better job and in fact should be doing more tenacious follow-up like you are doing. Deep down they will respect your dedication to your company and your efforts to help them make the best decisions in business they can, armed with the best information. So be brave, be persistent and be patient.